Shine

There’s no special feeling greater than that of embracing your individuality. Because only you can ignite the spark within you.

Just love yourself the way you are no need to change yourself for others’ happiness. Because once you bring changes in your personality than the person one who said you to change will no longer like that change in you. Be what you want to be and do what makes you only you but not the replica of others. If you love yourself then it doesn’t matter to you whether others love you or not. Because you will be self-sufficient for yourself. Never search peace in things always search for it within yourself. Because peace of mind comes from inside of you, not from the surroundings. From surroundings, you can only get the noise of chaos, arguments, etc.

Humans have a control button in the brain which is most of the time controlled by others but not by themselves. Never give your control button to others in society. Because they know very well how to misuse that. In fact, they hold a Ph.D. for this work. They will change you as they want but in the end, they will say you changed a lot.

Let me give you an example………..

So there was a girl who was full of life. She had only one fear that is darkness other than that she was never afraid of anything until she faced the reality of the world. In childhood, she was praised for her open-minded and straight forward thinking and talking way. But as she grew up those qualities had changed not bad qualities according to society. In starting I said until she faced reality. So the reality which she faced. That was from her father one who always praised her in front of others for her straight forward speaking skills in childhood. Is now not happy with this skill anymore. Because society has issues with this skill in her. As she was a girl and in this world, a girl can’t be straight forward. If she is so then the famous tags like #shameless, #uncultured, #untraditional, etc are tagged to her.

The first time when she came to know that her father doesn’t like just because others don’t like then she questioned herself do her likes depend on others’ likes? Does she need validation for her likes from others?

She said to herself it’s her life after all she is the one who has to walk alone on this path.