Real man……..

What is the definition of a real man????????

One person who is tall, strong, and earn enough to feed his family. Then what about those persons who are not tall or strong. They are not men. Did you ever hear that a farmer woman has committed suicide? We always heard the farmer man has committed suicide. Do you know why just because of the immense pressure of manhood on them? Before committing suicide they only think one thing that if they can’t feed their family then there being is worthless.

In India, 95% of violent crimes have men involved in them. The violence is somewhere connected to inequality, injustice, power, and authority. It’s untrue that nature has got anything to do with manhood. Nature never forbids anyone from loving and carrying their children. Nature has not assigned any work to anyone. It’s human who divided those works.

If people talk about nature then buddha couldn’t give birth a life but he was compassionate and sensitive. A woman can also be cruel. Likewise, if a man is compassionate and sensitive then there is nothing wrong with it. They both are humans. But girls are conditioned since childhood under the pressure of patriarchy. So, as soon as a woman becomes a mother-in-law she commits all kinds of atrocities, too. It’s all about power and this has nothing to do with nature. This is connected to our outlook.

The time has come to redefine manhood. Boys and girls both should be brought up in the same way and should be taught the same values. Because the universe runs with the help of both. Both are equally responsible for everything in this universe. One should teach their children the beautiful values of love, affection, compassion, modesty, sympathy, forgiveness, and equality. Never teach them violence and fight.

I personally believe that one person’s upbringing, parents teaching and environment play a vital role in shaping that person’s values. If a kid witness violence inside their house and surroundings that makes a big difference in that kid’s life. Every parent should ensure that their child never experiences violence in their house. It’s time parents should question themselves about what they are teaching their children.